How to Prepare for a Buddhist Funeral

Singapore is a highly religious diverse country, boasting of Buddhists, Taoist, Christians, and Muslims, and a small percentage of atheists. Among the most extensively practiced religion in this part of the world is Buddhism, with close to one-third of the population adhering to this faith and its teachings, traditions, and beliefs integrated with their daily lives.

In this regard, the Buddhist funeral procedure is an important aspect of Buddhist funeral services in Singapore since they are rich in cultural and historical significance. Their essence is to help the departed transition into a new life based on their karmic imprint and establish the basis for funeral and post-funeral ceremonies.

Having said that, this blog post aims to take you through a couple of things you should know about the Buddhist funeral procedure.

Buddhism and Funerals

One of the key ideas of Buddhism is the law of cause and effect, which indicates that if one does good deeds without reservation, good things will eventually come to them. This principle stands true even after a person passes away and enters the afterlife. Buddhists believe that the positive or negative effects of one’s actions in this and prior lives would be carried forward into their future reincarnations.

While Buddhists regard to death as a transition from one life to another, expressing grief is acceptable. It allows family and friends to mourn the loss of a loved one while still acknowledging the fleeting nature of life.

Buddhist Funeral Etiquette

As a Buddhist funeral procedure, mourners are expected to arrive quietly and approach the alter to pay their respects by bowing, pausing reverently for a moment in front of the altar or lighting a single joss stick and reflecting on the deceased’s life. In case chanting happens, then attendees are welcome to join in.

When it comes to dressing, you should be in white, black or any other neutrally colored attired that makes it comfortable to sit or kneel during the ceremony. Wearing jewelry at these funeral services is discouraged as it can come across as pretentious.

Also, there’s nothing wrong with sending flowers and plants to be displayed at the funeral or bring flowers to personally offer to the family. White lotuses remain a popular choice for Buddhists funerals. During funeral ceremonies, cards and charitable offerings are also accepted. Ensure you acquaint yourself with the Buddhist funeral procedure before attending one.

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